Being Real Is Non-Negotiable For Success

When you believe that you should live your life through Prosperity and Abundance and your concrete results are scarce (either affectionate or financial) you need to take a time out and get real with yourself. Who you are follows you everywhere! This applies to both your personal and business aspects of your life.

Being Authentic is to be honest, sincere and transparent. Being real is to think, say, do and feel the same thing. Being real does not necessarily mean to express your intimate truth to others. Most of all it is important to reveal the truth to yourself. It is Your Book of Your life after all. Being real is in accordance to the behaviours that are directly related to your deepest needs. How faithful are you to the essential needs of Your Being? This is not to be confused with emotional needs of the ego. The gap between your needs and your behaviours are your actions or your non actions.

Many times unconscious fears are the culprit that keeps you stuck in the gap. The gap holds emotions and thoughts, the energy of anger, sadness, overwhelm or impatience. It could be the whole rainbow of emotions including anxiety and anguish. The gap is not so visible and tangible I agree! You always have two choices in dealing with how you feel and what you want or need. You could chose to pull on your spouse, your children, your friends or your business colleagues and partners to make you feel better as you close your heart through your ego or you could keep your heart open and connect to the Golden Thread of Your Essence to gain clarity and be inspired with a loving action that will transform how you feel.

When I started to question a certain behavior that I was fed up of having I got real with myself. Anger was present. I know that anger hides fears so I started to talk it out just as I would with trusted person that is important for me.

My decision was to keep my heart open as I questioned myself. What do I get out of this behaviour? What am I getting exactly? What am I in lack? What is this behaviour is filling? I got instant clarity. Wow! Loving attention, freedom, money - Got it! This is the survival energy of the ego. The emotional and mental energy bodies thrive through the ego. It is this that closes the heart.

What does loving attention, freedom and money have to do with the pure feeling of loneliness? Nothing at all! This clearly reveals how the ego has distorted ways of protecting the heart from feeling pain. The intelligence of my heart holds the real truth. The pure feeling of my heart was loneliness. A responsible compassion keeps my heart open to quickly surrender the burden of the heart.

For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. Matthew 6:21

Being real is to know yourself in a very intimate way. Being authentic is to stand transparent when you share your words with another person.

Being real is non-negotiable for success. When you neglect your sensitivity and the natural limits of your heart you open the door to self-serving manipulative people who mirrors what is unconscious within you. When you are one with the intelligence of your heart you know when you pull on another person or when another person pulls on you with a closed heart that is self-serving. It feels heavy. When you are real with yourself you know if the other another person you are sharing with is real.

The courage to be real gives you instant confidence when you stand transparent in your truth to be YOU in your wholeness. Being authentic and sharing with another person builds trust. Confidence and trust walk hand in hand. Your sensitive antennas and the intelligence of your heart guide you perfectly.

The Intelligence of Your Heart guides you perfectly. Your divine shine is yours to invest in. You can neglect it and live through the ego however obvious or subtle it is or you can own it by investing your attention where it counts.

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